I have focused on my job and excelled, you should to. I was like big deal. Do you believe that sex after 60 is better than ever?
In the past I have spent the night at a boyfriend's house, but Ben has not spent the night anywhere.
Marriage success is not attained by luck.
If you and your partner find it difficult, Nagoski recommends seeing a therapist who can help.
I has no partner before her.
And then where will your attraction for him go from there?
God describes a husband who loves his wife so much that he puts her needs as high on the chart as his own bodily needs!
Coming back to point.
You need to gain wisdom and support for what you can do.
My wife works with her ex, he even lives in our region so they are even in same company van, initially I was very much against her work but after a lot of fights I gave up, I just live like a robot now, she has crushed all my feelings.
It may not be a good idea to mention anything about his affair right now, Archie.
Things are going downhill.
That would be a good starting place for this journey towards freedom.
And you are pinnacle of daftness or what?